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      <image:caption>Asleep, He Cries You couldn't tell how much suffering he'd already endured in his short five years of life when he was sleeping.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Study of Anxiety Monsters Trying to create a children's book character about anxiety monsters.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Sketch about How My Patient Described Therapy It's like you hold up a mirror and I really don’t want to look into it because I think I am so ugly, but deep inside I wish I were cute and pretty (she tears up). But, you keep holding up the mirror and show me that I just have some dirt on my face and you help me brush it off. Then I begin to realize that maybe I’m not so ugly...</image:caption>
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